people say “if you don’t lower your standards, you’re gonna end up spending your whole life alone!” like being a healthy, happy, financially independent single adult is actually worse than being stuck in an abusive and/or emotionally unfulfilling relationship with someone who isn’t willing/able to meet your needs. like no offense, but I think I’m gonna choose to be happy rather than throwing myself into a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship.
summer beaches or winter forests? strawberries or mangos? tokyo lights or studio ghibli scenery? blushy cheeks or glitter in the sun? scented candles or perfume? flower café in the south of france or bakery in paris? carrot cake or vanilla ice cream?