demi-bi-barry:

Happy Ace Awareness Week

Just a reminder that:

  1. The A in LGBTQIA+ stands for asexual, not ally! Allies are great but they’re not a part of the queer community, while aces are!
  2. There are many identities on the ace spectrum that don’t equal zero sexual attraction! If you’re demisexual (like me), you only experience sexual attraction after having a strong emotional bond with someone. If you’re gray-asexual, you rarely ever experience sexual attraction.
  3. You can be ace and LGBPQ! You can be ace and trans*! Being ace doesn’t just mean cis aroace!
  4. There’s no such thing as a cishet ace. By being asexual your attraction to the opposite gender is inherently different from a cisgendered heteroromantic heterosexual’s attraction.
  5. Finally, asexuality is absolutely real and valid. Being ace is not a mental disorder, and being ace doesn’t mean you just haven’t found the right guy/girl/nb pal. If you’re ace, you are so valid and I love you so much!

🖤💜🖤

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